ME: More mornings than before are like this morning, I seem to wake to an unhappiness and talking to you while lying in bed does not seem to get me to a better space, so here I am again, completely unmotivated and unable to enjoy the morning, which is unfortunate. I find myself touched by some FB posts or pictures, but I don’t really know what to do with that. Perhaps coming here to sit with you about it would help. I so need to connect to my true self and the good of life. There is so much good to lean into even in the worst of times. Wendell Berry and Mary Oliver invite me into nature in this way. Nature is a lifeline to good because it has prevailed through all and will continue to do so because life is irrepressible regardless of the evil humanity does to itself and the world. It is a bigger story like You and eternity (but more easily accessible sometimes). Connecting to what is true in others through poetry, music, and art can help also. Too often the good feels like little pockets or bubbles that are immersed in the greater reality of the bad. After all, if good were greater, we would make constant progress as humanity when instead we seem to simply repeat cycles of self-destructiveness with recovery, and I’m not even sure the recovery comes from goodness. It may just be a counter force that is merely a lesser evil. The world is ruled by force so that our goodness does not shape the context, but is within the darker context. It influences the context, naturally, and keeps it from becoming even darker, but power always controls, and perhaps that is what Jesus came to teach us—that goodness shines clearer in the contrasting darkness and is strengthened within us by that challenge. “The kingdom of God is within.” Perhaps I am measuring the wrong thing, the context or container instead of the life within, just as the earth is a speck in the dark, lifeless universe and yet the earth is the center of what matters. But when I start to think of my response as the key instead of the dark situation, I see how defective my responses are. Do I have more light in me than darkness—darkness of fear, ignorance, reactivity, self-loathing? I am healing, but the journey is long and I have trouble seeing that the importance lies in the direction rather than the attainment. I should also take note that the context heavily impacts the inner life. It is always “uphill both ways.” The surrounding darkness is full of traps, obstacles, vortexes, deceptions and the like. The good in me is tangled and complex. But then I remember that grace is key not only as the target but also as the means. Grace above all, especially towards myself. I stumble often, but this does not define me. Grace defines me. If I succeed in giving myself grace, true, deep grace, I am living from the good into the good.
GOD: I’m so glad you finally landed back in grace! That is the whole of good. There is no true virtue except it springs from grace and grace heals all. Darkness that ends in grace is transformed, the wrong into good, and virtue that is outside of grace is a deceptive undoing of the good. Grace is all. This is my heart and to live in grace is to live in me. Of course it is a powerful and rich grace, not the cheap imitation that minimizes the impact of the darkness–but no darkness is beyond redemption, which turns it into a source of light. That is the real purpose of shame as it awakens you to the harm and invites you into the only remedy, which is grace, not greater effort. I love how you keep growing in this and coming back to it. The fact that you make your way back here clearly shows that it is at heart what you ground your life in, however distracted you may become at times. This dance between you and me is wonderful, joining our hearts in the one bond that holds against all, which is grace. I welcome you back here! So glad to see you here again! You are a joy to me!
Janathan Grace Reflections 
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