Me: …Anxiety is not a failure. It is just informing me of what needs attention and care…. I think anxiety is inviting me to notice my inner trouble and encouraging me to then lean into grace which has somehow gotten away from me, and to trust your grace to come through for me whether my anxiety is lessened or not. Oh “come through for me” can be confused with fixing. Really the form of grace I need most is compassion, to believe you care deeply for my pain. Like a little kid who would run to his supportive mom, not mostly to fix the problem, but to receive that understanding, validation, and comfort. I used to think quite [strongly] that you were primarily into my character building, making me a better person. That looks similar enough to be confused with grace, but it is the opposite. Now I believe you only wish for me to grow into all the beauty that is seeded in my soul. I thought I was the gardener and now see I am the garden!
God: What a wonderful way of seeing my love and delight in your unique beauty! And it is truly the responsibility of the gardener to foster the natural beauty of the garden. I love that you trust me for that. I know that is a struggle and has been your whole life, but look how much you have grown! You have overcome major challenges to trust, and really it is all about the direction, not the speed or attainment. In fact, looking at it as attainment pulls you away from my grace and turns our relationship into legalism. The key to close connection is in walking the journey together, not achieving some goal. I love that you are walking the journey with me. How delightful!
Janathan Grace Reflections 
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